In my personal opinion no one should be judged nor lost in respect due to a personal choice. However committing a dangerous crime is to another extent, but for now lets be reasonable. In the example you gave it would be very wrong of someone to lose respect for someone based on that choice. This day in age people make this choice at a wide range of their lifespan, and it's way too diverse to pin point when they should and shouldn't make that decision. Never think that you would lose your value in such ways. Everyone is entitled to that kind of freedom! Sprinkle holy water on those that beg to differ.
personal choices are the only way to judge a person, the situation is circumstantial, however if you feel your personal choice is not being respected you might not have to hide it but you cant force your values or beliefs on another either, in this case due to wording the person in question loses value if they hide said interaction from life partner after making said promise to be a life partner, life lasts long enough, don't fill it with lies.
Lying is a part of the Human condition. Not acknowledging this is the ultimate lie. How you alter a relationship in the wake of being lied to is the difficult process. Sexism has repressed many women to disavow themselves to their personal truth. Men have done this because by and large they fear women. Men are terrified of women's true desires. So we have represssed them until we made ourselves weak.
In my personal opinion no one should be judged nor lost in respect due to a personal choice. However committing a dangerous crime is to another extent, but for now lets be reasonable. In the example you gave it would be very wrong of someone to lose respect for someone based on that choice. This day in age people make this choice at a wide range of their lifespan, and it's way too diverse to pin point when they should and shouldn't make that decision. Never think that you would lose your value in such ways. Everyone is entitled to that kind of freedom! Sprinkle holy water on those that beg to differ.
personal choices are the only way to judge a person, the situation is circumstantial, however if you feel your personal choice is not being respected you might not have to hide it but you cant force your values or beliefs on another either, in this case due to wording the person in question loses value if they hide said interaction from life partner after making said promise to be a life partner, life lasts long enough, don't fill it with lies.
Lying is a part of the Human condition. Not acknowledging this is the ultimate lie. How you alter a relationship in the wake of being lied to is the difficult process. Sexism has repressed many women to disavow themselves to their personal truth. Men have done this because by and large they fear women. Men are terrified of women's true desires. So we have represssed them until we made ourselves weak.